The
Marriage Reset

For Men Ready to Lead

Stop waiting for your wife to change. Become the man she can't help but respect and desire.

The Marriage Reset transforms you at the identity level—not with communication tips or date nights, but with deep work on who you are as a man, leader, and husband.

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The White Picket Fence Project

For Women Ready to Transform

Stop exhausting yourself trying to hold your marriage together. Reclaim your identity and require the partnership you deserve.

The White Picket Fence Project helps women set boundaries, stop enabling, and become the woman who creates transformation—with or without his participation.

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High Level Training With Cass & Kathryn

Free Training Inside

  • Automatic Turn-Offs: From conversations to banter, flirts to dates—and yes, sex. What's killing attraction without you realizing it.
  • Why This Is Happening To You: The real reason your marriage is dying (it's not what you think).
  • Secret Recording of a Real Fight: Live training with Cass & Kathryn showing you how to handle conflict.

Marriage Restored

Disrupting Divorce and
Flipping Statistics with The
New Marriage

"We should have divorced 1000 times. We almost killed each other.
Thank God we didn't"

You don't have to settle for a passionless, sexless, or conflict-filled marriage just because society tells you that's "normal."

The facts:

  • Divorce rates are at an all-time high
  • Cheating is getting worse
  • Traditional marriage counseling has a failure rate over 50%

What Cass and Kathryn survived:

  • Emotional, physical, and sexual abuse
  • Restraining order
  • 7 separations
  • 2 divorce lawyers
  • 1 year of probation

If they came back from that, there's hope for you too.

Couple embracing

MEN: Start Here

(You should be leading)
WOMEN: Start Here (Even if your husband isn't on board)

Is This Your Marriage?

Sexless Marriage

It's been months—or years—since you've been intimate. When you do have sex, it feels like a chore.

This is fixable.

Roommates, Not Partners

You co-parent, split bills, and sleep in the same bed. But there's no connection, no spark.

This is fixable.

Constant Fighting

Every conversation turns into conflict. You're always defending yourself. The nastiness never stops.

This is fixable.

Spouse Checked Out

They've mentioned divorce. They're emotionally gone. They may even be seeing someone else.

This is still fixable.

Tried Everything

Therapy, books, date nights, love languages. Nothing worked.

They don't address the real problem.

Or maybe you know deep down inside…

Deep connection

Marriage Restored

You Can't Leave. They Are The One.
This Has To Be Worth It.

You signed up for a partner, not a roommate or an enemy.

Whether your spouse is on board or not, Cass and Kathryn have the recipe for:

  • Reconnecting with your spouse
  • Experiencing TRUE desire again
  • Not talking or fighting for it
  • Not having it feel like a job or chore

There are no other coaches, consultants, therapists, counselors, courses, or books delivering what they've created.

They tried them all. No one else offers this. Anywhere.

Don't let your marriage slip away waiting for your spouse to be ready.

You can take things into your own hands and change the course of your life, your partner's life, and your family's life as a unit.

With or without their participation.

Family together

Ready to Save Your Marriage?

For Men

Stop waiting for her to change. Become the man she can't help but respect and desire. The Marriage Reset transforms you at the identity level.

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For Women

Stop exhausting yourself. Reclaim your identity and require the partnership you deserve. The White Picket Fence Project is your path.

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SUCCESS STORIES

Real Transformations

From the brink of divorce to thriving marriages. These aren't fairy tales—they're real couples who refused to give up.

5,600+ Marriages Saved
23% Acceptance Rate
6-12 mo Typical Results
"We literally ripped up the divorce papers. I can't believe how fast things turned around."

William & Sarah

Filing for divorce Ripped up divorce papers, marriage thriving
The Marriage Reset
"She just initiated again... I couldn't believe it. It's been 7 years since she initiated anything."

Michael & Jennifer

Sexless for 7 years She initiated intimacy again
The Marriage Reset
"The nastiness is gone. We actually enjoy being together now. It's like we're newlyweds again."

David & Amanda

Constant fighting and nastiness Peaceful, loving connection
The Marriage Reset

See how couples just like you transformed their marriages

Publications

Featured Articles

Podcast Interviews

Media

Interview by Chris Voss Show

Interview by DreamCatchers

The Success Mindset Show

Frequently Asked Questions About Saving Your Marriage

Q: Can I save my marriage if my spouse has given up?

A: Yes. Most of the 5,600+ couples we've helped started with only ONE person willing to do the work. When you transform at the identity level—who you are, how you show up, how you lead—your spouse responds. Not because you manipulated them, but because you became someone they can't help but respond to. You don't need their permission to become undeniable.

Q: How is this different from marriage counseling?

A: Traditional counseling focuses on communication techniques and requires both spouses to participate equally. We focus on IDENTITY transformation. You can't fix a marriage by working on the marriage—you fix it by becoming a different person. When you change, the marriage changes with you. And only ONE person needs to do the work.

Q: What if we haven't had sex in years?

A: Sexless marriages are our specialty. "Sexless marriage" is the #1 most searched marriage complaint on Google. Here's the truth: your spouse isn't "just not a sexual person." They're not having sex with you because they don't feel safe, respected, or desired. When you transform who you are, intimacy returns—not as a transaction, but as genuine desire. We've helped men whose wives hadn't initiated in 7+ years.

Q: How long does it take to see results?

A: Most couples see significant transformation within 6-12 months. Some men notice shifts in their wives within WEEKS. It depends on how committed you are and how deep the damage goes. What we promise: if you do the work, your marriage will transform.

Q: Do I have to have been through abuse like you?

A: No. While our story involved abuse, most couples we work with are dealing with: sexless marriages, emotional disconnection, constant fighting, one spouse thinking about divorce, lack of respect or attraction, or past infidelity. You don't need to have survived hell to work with us—you just need to be serious about transformation.

Q: Why is there only a 23% acceptance rate?

A: We're selective because transformation requires commitment. We only work with people who are serious about doing the deep work—not looking for quick fixes or someone to validate their victim story. If you're accepted, you're in the room with people who refuse to settle.

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