Before the Training

How to walk into this training ready.

Preventing Space, Separation and Divorce runs live at 8:30 PM EST — Date to be announced soon.

Don't just show up — show up prepared.

Do these three things first and the training will hit completely differently.

Our next live training date will be announced soon — check back later.

  1. Lock in the date (coming soon)
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  2. Get your workbook & score Go
  3. Get to know us Go
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We'll post the next live training date soon — check back to grab your seat.

Step 2 · Get Your Score

What's your Marriage Risk Score?

Is your marriage peaceful… or has your spouse simply stopped trying? Most couples can't tell the difference — and that's exactly why marriages drift for years before anyone says the word “divorce.”

The Marriage Risk Assessment is a free fillable workbook that walks you through the same diagnostic Cass & Kathryn use with private clients. In 20–25 honest minutes you'll uncover your Marriage Risk Score, the cycle you keep living, and the real pattern hiding underneath the arguments about communication, conflict, and sex.

Complete it before the training and bring your answers. The live training will matter more if you can see the pattern before you show up.

How to use it

  • Set aside 20–25 minutes somewhere quiet. Do it alone, or do it together — but write your own answers first.
  • Don't perform. Don't soften the truth to protect your ego or your spouse's feelings. There's no right answer. There's only an honest one.
  • Add up your score, then bring it and your answers to the live training. We'll show you the pattern underneath them.
Download the Workbook

Fillable PDF · 28 pages · takes 20–25 minutes · do it alone or together

Your score reveals your risk level

  • 0–3 Early drift
  • 4–7 Active drift
  • 8–12 Repeated breakdown pattern
  • 13+ Marriage risk issue — not just a communication issue

Step 3 · Get to Know Us

Get to know us before we go live.

Start with the episode below — it goes straight to the heart of what we'll cover live. Then meet Cass & Kathryn and explore the rest. The more you understand how we teach, the more this training can change for you.

Bitterness, Blame & Contempt: Emotional Divorce Before the Legal One | The NEW Marriage Ep320

Explore the Free Resources

The free MORROW app, both books, the album, the blog — every free way to start doing the work before we go live.

See All Free Resources

Listen to the Podcast

Real, unfiltered conversations on marriage from Cass & Kathryn. Keep one playing on your commute before the next session.

Open the Podcast

That's it. Do the workbook, watch the episode, and we'll see you live as soon as the next date is announced.

Quick Questions

Before you go live

What time is the training in my timezone?

It runs at 8:30 PM Eastern. That's 7:30 PM Central, 6:30 PM Mountain, and 5:30 PM Pacific. Outside the US, it lands at roughly 1:30 AM in the UK and 10:30 AM in eastern Australia (the next morning). When you add it to your calendar with the button above, it converts to your local time automatically.

What if I lose my Zoom link?

Don't worry — we email your link when you register and send reminders (and a text, if you gave us your number) before we go live, including shortly before it starts. Just open the most recent reminder and click through. The fastest fix is to add it to your calendar now so the link is right there when it's time.

How long is it, and is it really free?

It's a full 2 hours of live teaching plus live Q&A, and yes — it's completely free. No catch, no pitch you have to sit through to get value. Come ready to actually work on your marriage.

Do I need my spouse there with me?

Nope. Come on your own or together — both work. Either way, fill out your workbook on your own first and write your own honest answers before you compare. You'll get more out of the training when you already see your own pattern.

Will there be a replay?

No — this one is live only, there's no replay. So show up live if you possibly can: the live Q&A is where you get real answers about your specific situation, which a recording could never give you. The good news? We run this training live every week with different topics, so if you can't make it this week, catch us next week.