Break the Cycle Starter Bundle (Digital)
Two books, one story, one way to stand without sacrificing yourself to save your children.
Instant digital access, read from your phone. He doesn't have to know you bought it.
Here's what you get.
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Step 1
Understand him, and what's happening to you.
Disrupting Divorce, Cass's digital book and full audiobook
See inside a husband's mind so his moods, anger and shutdowns stop feeling random. Understanding your cycle and understanding your husband's cycle, and seeing your marriage in it, is what lets you break free.
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Step 2
Use Kathryn's tools to stop the cycle.
Behind the White Picket Fence, Kathryn's digital workbook
The exact steps she took while she was still the one hurting, still staying, and not sure it would work.
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Step 3
Walk in your God-given power.
Women of Impact 52-Week Bible Study (digital), plus the weekly included call
A yearlong guided journey through 52 remarkable women in Scripture, so you rebuild your daily walk with God and start seeing yourself the way He does.
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And you're not doing it alone
The MORROW app women's space.
Community and support for your marriage and your walk with God
Shedding light for your children
Wives who are staying, fighting for peace, and refusing to lose themselves. Women standing together are more powerful than standing alone.
That's everything in the $37 bundle. No subscription. Nothing else required to start.
"More than anything, this book gave me hope. It reminded me that even when a marriage feels broken, change may still be possible."
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Our mission
Nobody should have to choose between her marriage and herself.
Most real help for a marriage this hard assumes you have thousands of dollars and a husband who'll show up to counseling. You have neither. So you get told to submit more, pray harder, and wait, while you keep managing his moods and crying where nobody can hear you.
Kathryn stayed through the abuse and changed the marriage anyway, before Cass ever chose to change. These two books are what she'd hand you if she were sitting across from you. Priced so you can start today, quietly, from your phone.
Real reviews of Kathryn's book
What women said about Behind the White Picket Fence.
Without Kathryn I wouldn't have my family
I hated my husband. I was tired, angry and repulsed by him. I thought I tried everything. Therapy, books, podcasts. Until you learn from Kathryn, you have not tried everything. I can't thank you enough Kathryn. You gave me hope, strength and saved my marriage. My family will forever be thankful.
Some People Tell, Kathryn SHOWS - 10 Stars!
Over the last 27 years, I have helped thousands of couples learn to navigate the complex waters of marriage, only to find the modalities and counsel wanting in the end. Kathryn provides clarity and a clear and direct action plan for self-reflection for women determined to be a positive force in their relationship despite their husband's desire to change or even listen. This book is to the point and provides reflective guidance guaranteed to establish peace and hope even in the most difficult situations. Kathryn grew to her status of helping others by not just surviving a very violent marriage but learning the skills and patience to stand up for herself and also help guide her husband toward change. Read this book, share it, buy more and give it away.
Game changer
I cannot recommend this book enough. Kathryn is doing something no one else is. I was drawn to her because of what she herself has overcome, combined with the accountability that I needed. If you truly want to transform yourself and your relationships, you have to start with YOU. Highly recommend this book and her program.
Wonderful workbook!
Very enlightening and definitely pulls on the heart strings, as it shows we're not alone in how we feel and or what we're going thru. That anyone and everyone is going thru something and with the right mindset and direction from people whom have been there you can get the support you need an heal. Become that person you want to be for yourself and your marriage. I recommend Katheryn and Cass to everyone who I talk to whom is going thru struggles in their marriage.
IT WORKS!! Game changer to a better you
Kathryn's book is fantastic. This book is a step by step process to setting personal and marital goals with a breakdown on following through with them. The last chapters focus on teaching effective communication with your partner.
Help with open communication
Being able to sit down and connect with your spouse is what this is about for us. Realizing that it's important to do the work. Thank you for your help in our journey towards a better marriage.
In their own words
Marriages that looked exactly like yours.
Real Morrow Marriage experiences. Their words, unchanged.
Wives who were done, in their own words
Restraining orders, two kids with a man she felt trapped with, and a wife who was sure her husband was a narcissist. Each of them says what changed once she stopped waiting on him to go first.
It would be easier if he was dead
Twenty years walking on eggshells around his anger. A year on, she doesn't have to worry about it anymore.
Matt & Naomi
Three decades in, and the last few weeks changed it
She found the messages and called it her bottom. They were barely hanging on and talking to attorneys. Now the triggers get laughed at, he stops hiding, and she says they have done more together in a couple of weeks than in thirty years.
Irene & Terry
Be honest with yourself
This is for you if
- You're not leaving, and you're also not okay.
- His moods run the home and you read the room before you speak.
- You use sex to manage his moods, and you check it off a list to buy yourself safety.
- You've been told to submit more and pray harder, and it hasn't worked.
- You believe God can heal marriages but you're losing hope He'll heal yours.
- You're willing to go first, even if he isn't ready yet.
Straight answers
The questions wives actually ask.
Does my husband have to know?
No. Both books are digital and read from your phone. Nothing arrives at the home, nothing shows up in a shared inbox unless you use a shared email, and he never has to open a page.
Are you going to tell me to leave?
No. This is built for the wife who's staying. Nobody here will shame you for staying or push you out the door.
Are you going to tell me to just submit more?
No. You've had that advice and it left you managing his moods. This is about standing with wisdom, boundaries and strength, which is a different thing entirely.
What if he never changes?
Then you'll still know who you are, what you'll accept, and how to stop losing yourself in his moods. Kathryn changed how she showed up before Cass ever chose to change.
What if I'm not safe?
If you are in immediate physical danger, don't start with a book. Call 911 or a local shelter first. These resources are for women who are currently safe but deeply hurting.
How fast can I start?
Within a few minutes. You can be reading tonight and on Day 1 of the reading plan before you go to sleep.
Why listen to Kathryn at all?
She lived it before she taught it.
Kathryn didn't learn this in a classroom. She learned it married to a man who put her through seven separations, a restraining order, and two divorce lawyers. She had to heal from emotional, physical and sexual abuse.
She also has the credentials to go with the scars: a Gottman-trained marriage coach with a Masters. Between them, Cass and Kathryn have now walked more than 8,000 people through these frameworks.
"I meant it when I said I was done, but I wasn't leaving my children. I knew I was a victim. Cass abused me every single day, but I learned to stop being a victim and learned to influence the love that I knew he was capable of. The love bombs. I taught him how to love consistently. I stopped shutting down. I stopped being defensive and attacking. I started engaging him in a way that I'll show you with my book, but you need to understand him first. I did what nobody would ever tell you to do. Even though I was being abused, I understood him, so I could influence him."
8,000+ helped in the last 4 years
Wives who stayed, and changed their marriage anyway.
Real women, real Morrow Marriage experiences. Their words, unchanged.
"I went from planning divorce to a calmer, softer, more engaged husband — without him even being in the program."
Cherie
"One month after joining, my husband was asking about my calls, encouraging me, and showing up different — all because I chose to change."
Nicole Espinoza
"My partner of 7 years and I were about to be destroyed by our lack of communication. I bought Cass's book and Kathryn's, started watching the podcast, and changed the way I communicated. We went from no talk, separate rooms, and gaslighting to REAL TALK. He took me on a date, we started to reconnect, and our love life went from non-existent to holy moly. I have the man I fell in love with back, not the narcissist I ran away from. If you can save this train wreck, you can save anyone who puts the program to work."
Traci Ditchburn Hope
"Before joining the program, I was a broken shell of a woman. My marriage had become a prison of betrayal, lies, disconnection, and a total lack of communication. I had been listening to the podcast and decided to join the program on my own. I began to understand how my actions contributed to the marriage problems. I learned new ways to respond and new tools to communicate and connect with my spouse. My husband told me after a while that I was inspiring him to change. We are always a work in progress, but we have found love again!"
Dawn
Nothing changes in your home until something changes in you.
One-time payment of $37. No subscription. Instant digital access.